Life
Lou Ann and I went to see the movie “The Glass Castle” this afternoon. It was very depressing to watch and reminded me so much of my childhood. It was based on a true story about an alcoholic abusive father and a mother who allowed him to continue his horrible behavior. There were four children who somehow survived their sad upbringing. I wouldn’t recommend the film to anyone unless there is some therapeutic value in it. So here is what I advise.
Find a Coach
Everyone could use a coach. The most successful entertainers, sports professionals, Olympic athletes all have coaches. Even though they have reached the pinnacle of success they still get coached.
Most of us do not perform at such a high degree of excellence. Many work hard and create much life success. However, there are issues in our lives that often overshadow what we have achieved. They show up in our life and often sabotage our intended results. The challenge is that we are mostly unaware that these life issues even exist. We often feel a discontentment, like something is missing. Or these unconscious issues create negative life experiences like divorce, bankruptcy, addictions, obesity, and even criminal activity. I have experienced most of these!
Almost everything in life is a choice. As young children we created a pattern of choosing that has served us in many ways. Now as adults, it is time to look at those choices and perhaps choose a more powerful way of creating our desired results. Coaching can help us look at things differently. Coaching can help create powerful results and lasting happiness. Don’t go through life alone. Your coach should be unconditionally loving and supportive. They should know your life history and how you arrive at the decisions you make. Find a coach and live a wonderful, fulfilling, abundant, joyful life.
I fortunately have a wonderful coach, who not only gives me wonderful ideas, she also let’s me know when I am not in alignment with my heart’s desires. She is also my best friend and wife, Lou Ann. From my heart to yours, Thomas